I was teaching at a yoga teacher training course and we were having a discussion on Philosophy.
I recalled a sutra from the central texts of yoga (The Yoga Sutra of Patanjali, if you are that way inclined). Originally in Sanskrit, (I shall refrain from waxing lyrical about how much I love this perfect language!) it says, literally – “The coming suffering is to be avoided”.
What does that mean? “The suffering that is to come can be avoided?”.
For me, it is saying that things can become better in the future, by the choices we make in the present. This is a real message of hope.
It is about choosing your highest values to guide your actions.
If I ask myself ‘from what basis do I decide my present actions?’ What guides it? I would like to say it is Compassion.
Compassion is equal parts of love and discrimination.
The Buddhists say it is only our actions that we can own. We tend to think it is what we say that matters; yet it is who we are and what we do with our lives.
This sutra means Being in the present and still planning. By practicing being present and planning for the future with skilful decisions born of our values, we are then able to meet the inevitable challenges of life.
I recently saw this very quote being discussed in a book on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Obsessive Compulsive Disorders. Another example of ancient wisdom with current application!
So in these most challenging of times, perhaps we can consider what guides our actions, so that we can skilfully navigate our way to a future without the suffering which could have been avoided. (I thank all my teachers, past and present who have guided my life and shared so generously of their own experiences and insights).
Bernadette Arena
Bernadette has worked with the Quest for Life Foundation since early 2006 and is the Senior Facilitator on our residential programs. Her work is treasured by our participants and our team. She has also been developing and refining a deep understanding of the use of appropriate yoga and meditation approaches for use in oncology and with serious illness.
Bernadette maintains close association with International Yoga Teachers Association and is a senior lecturer for their Teacher Training Course. She has designed and delivered yoga teacher training courses for other organisations. During 5 years in the UK she taught retreats, workshops and classes across the UK and in Europe and worked as a personal ‘lifestyle’ coach. Bernadette brings a gentle and loving nature with insight and compassion borne out of her experience. She can assist a deeper connection with the body as a means to rejuvenate the spirit.


Hi Bernadette,
My greatest wish is that I had such knowledge, perhaps I could have avoided so much suffering.
My greatest hope now is that whatever choices I make, I can avoid any further suffering in the future.
Thank you for your beautiful spirit,
Lots of love,
Rita x
Thank you Rita. Happy new year to you…I am sure the future will be brighter by the choices we make today. many blessings xx