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For I am Love, And that’s all that is real

True transformation takes place with changes to what we think and feel.

True and lasting transformation is what we are privileged to witness and share on a Quest program.  Here is a beautiful testimony and poem from Meg Bryar, a participant on a recent Healing your Life program.

I am Love
By Meg Bryar
May, 2011

I am Love, Put onto this earth
With a physical body, that can feel and hurt;

With an active mind, that can think and create
Beliefs and assumptions, that can alter my fate.

I am Love, That is who I am
And I sooo want to feel, Myself again;

Because when the love that I am, Can shine right through
That’s all that I am, that’s all that’s true.

I am Love, Not limb, nor liver
Nor the body, that fear makes quiver.

I am not what I think, nor what I feel.
I am not what they say I am, none of that’s real.

Take my leg, remove my sight;
I still am what I am -  A love so bright.

Strip me bare, take me limb by limb;
You’ll find only love, contained within.

I am not my body. I am not my mind.
I am not what I’m feeling, Nor the trouble I find.

I am only pure love; Nothing more, nothing less
But I have a body, So you have something to caress.

I have a mind, So we can talk and share.
I have eyes, To see you there.

I have ears, So I can hear you sing.
I have a heart , To feel everything.

I have legs, So with you I can walk.
I have a mouth, So we can talk.

You used your bodily gift, To so carelessly abuse mine;
You abused my bodily gift, And distorted my mind.

The wounds you left caused a drift, Between love and what my body feels
But I’ll reconnect, And love will heal.

No matter your insults, No matter your blows,
No matter if your body, Breaks my nose.

You may take my dignity, You may take my rights;
But I am Love. I am my own light.

You can’t take love. You can’t take who I AM;
I can lose it somewhere, But I’ll find it again.

And Love will caress, And Love will heal;
For I am Love, And that’s all that is real.

With love, Meg

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The Placebo and Nocebo Effect

Continued……Read Part 1 here.

The Placebo and Nocebo Effect

The power of the mind to affect health has been known to the medical community for a long time and goes under the guise of “placebo effect” and the “nocebo effect”. The placebo effect is any beneficial change to a person’s health as a result of their belief in a treatment, irrespective of the efficiency of that treatment. Yet ironically, it is often seen as a nuisance, particularly in clinical trials, rather than a powerful tool. Despite this, it has been observed in many areas of medicine – from mental health, where it was recently estimated that the effect of a large majority of anti-depressants is mainly due to positive patient beliefs  about treatment [2], to  relief of arthritic pain in the knee where a sham surgery resulted in similar levels of pain relief as the real surgery [3]. This is not to say that belief will cure all. Instead it seems that a significant placebo response is generally observed in about 35% of all patients. However, the placebo effect clearly demonstrates the ability of our mind to improve our health and therefore should be an important part to our tool kit to health.

A tool can be used for good or evil. Our mind is a tool and is no exception to this rule. Negative beliefs can be detrimental to our health, in what is termed the “nocebo effect”. There have been several well documented cases to the power of the nocebo. The majority of these cases involve a person in a position of perceived power, such as a medical doctor or spiritual leader, giving a negative message to a patient who then incorporates it into their belief and live out message. One such case was recorded in a cardiac ward at a large catholic hospital in USA, where a cardiologist observed that one of his patients had taken a turn for the worse  and was about to die. A priest was called to administer last rites, but by mistake he went to stable patient next to the dying man. With an impressive air of authority he gave the last rites to the wrong man, who promptly died within 15min. The dying man survived for another 4 days [4].

Those in authority are not solely responsible for our health, as it is our own belief in their prognosis that gives power to the placebo/nocebo. Indeed, research has shown that we have the same ability to cause a placebo or nocebo response with our own health. Chemotherapy has a dreadful reputation and will often make patients feel violently nauseous. However, it seems that those who expected to be sick before starting treatment experienced the worst nausea during treatment[5]. Furthermore, nausea often starts before the treatment is given; a clear sign of nocebo.

In all these situations of placebo and nocebo the only cause was a change in belief, a change in both our unconscious and conscious minds. Indeed, the stronger your belief the greater the effect.

Your mind and Your health

Understanding that our mind has an effect on our body is one thing, but it is our health that is our concern. So what can you do?

Firstly, be aware of the effect that others have on you. Having a doctor telling you that you have 6 months to live may be creating a self-fulfilling prophecy. If your clinical support is overly negative or didactic, then find other doctors who support you. Similarly, be aware of friends and family and how you feel around them. If you find yourself increasingly negative around them, then try to surround yourself with those that uplift and support you.

Secondly, be aware of your own thoughts and feelings. They can have a huge effect on our physiology. If you are like most of us and your mind is constantly digging up past experiences or painting a horrific future, then do not despair. Instead try a guided meditation or some of the more physical meditative practices like yoga or Chi Gong. These will help quieten your conscious mind so you can direct it towards healthy thoughts.

Remember that the conscious mind trains the subconscious mind, and the subconscious instructs the body. With regular practice you will be able to consciously direct your body towards a healthier path.

May peace, love and health be with you on your journey.
Astley Friend

References:

1.               Ranganathan, V.K., et al., From mental power to muscle power–gaining strength by using the mind. Neuropsychologia, 2004. 42(7): p. 944-56.
2.               Kirsch, I., et al., Initial Severity and Antidepressant Benefits: A Meta-Analysis of Data Submitted to the Food and Drug Administration. PLoS Med, 2008. 5(2): p. e45.
3.               Moseley, J.B., et al., A controlled trial of arthroscopic surgery for osteoarthritis of the knee. N Engl J Med, 2002. 347(2): p. 81-8.
4.               Spiegel, H., Nocebo: the power of suggestibility. Preventive Medicine, 1997. 26(5 Pt 1): p. 616-21.
5.               Colagiuri, B., et al., How do patient expectancies, quality of life, and postchemotherapy nausea interrelate? Cancer, 2008. 113(3): p. 654-61.

Astley Friend

Astley Friend is both a traveller on his own cancer journey and a medical scientist with a keen interest in the relationship between our self, our mind, our body and our health.

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The mind is still one of nature’s great secrets

The mind is still one of nature’s great secrets – it controls everything we perceive, from sight to pain, along with the unconscious functioning of much of our body.  Science is beginning to unlock some of these secrets, and with each discovery we are piecing together its potential.  It is in understanding the relationship between our mind and body that we are uncovering the “power of the mind” over our body and health. This is not to say that the mind is the solution to all our health problems, but research is revealing that it does have a significant influence over our health and, in some cases, may be the difference between life and death.

Your mind

Before we can delve into the role that the mind plays in health, we must first define what is meant by “your mind”. Your mind is broadly divided into the conscious and subconscious. Your subconscious is simply everything that goes on in your mind that you are unaware of. It ranges from all your sensory input to the unconscious modulation of your organs like your immune system, heart and gut. It is this control over the body that is essential for influencing health. It is also the autopilot that does repetitive tasks the same way you first learnt. For example, when driving home we often get there without thinking – the subconscious mind drives us along the well known route.

In contrast, your conscious mind is everything that you are aware of. It includes the sensory information in your subconscious that you pay attention to. For example, when reading this article your attention is on the words, not on the feeling of shoes on your feet; thus you are aware of the words and not your feet (until now). Your conscious mind also includes your ego and self identity. Repetitive conscious thoughts also train the subconscious. So, to learn to drive a car, you had to continually consciously practice (thereby training the subconscious) until it became almost automatic.

Your mind, both conscious and subconscious, is dependent on the communication between brain cells called neurons. As a result, the mind needs the brain to function. Destroying the brain destroys the mind. Damage to certain parts of the brain will lead to predictable damage to our mind. For example, damage to an area called the fusiform facial gyrus can lead a person to still see and describe the features of a familiar face, but no longer recognise who the face belongs to.

Importantly, the relationship between the mind and the brain works both ways. The mind also directly influences and changes your brain. The more your mind activates (by thinking) a certain part of the brain, the more the brain changes in response to make it easier to use that part of the brain.

In regards to your health, this becomes important as repetitive conscious thoughts teach or instruct the subconscious, which in turn instructs the body through the nervous system. This was demonstrated when researchers at the Lerner Research Institute, USA measured the  finger muscle strength of three groups of young healthy volunteers [1]. The first group did nothing; they were the controls or comparison group. The second group were made to mentally practice lifting their finger (15min/day x 5 days week) for 12 weeks. The third group physically practiced lifting their finger for the same time period. Compared to the first group, the physical group increased their finger muscle strength by 53%, but fascinatingly, the mental group also increased their strength by 35%. Therefore, repetitive conscious thoughts are able to have a physiological effect on our body.

Now what happens if these thoughts are either beneficial or detrimental to our health? We get what is known as the placebo effect and the nocebo effect.

To be continued……

Astley Friend

Astley Friend is both a traveller on his own cancer journey and a medical scientist with a keen interest in the relationship between our self, our mind, our body and our health.

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“Meditation brings wisdom; lack of mediation leaves ignorance. Know well what leads you forward and what holds you back, and choose the path that leads to wisdom.” Buddha

People have been asking us what actually happens on the ‘Meditate for Life’ program?    So, in response, here are the answers to the most common questions:

Who’s it for?

It’s for anyone who is interested in learning to meditate or who has learned in the past and would like to kick-start their practice again.

How long does it go for?

8 weeks on a Monday evening, starting at 7.00pm and finishing at 9.30pm

What happens each evening?

Each evening we cover some theory, and also practice what we are learning.   Some evenings we have two meditations as a group, and some only one, depending on the material we cover.    Here’s a breakdown of what we cover each session:

Session 1:  What is Meditation? Learning a basic Breath Meditation

Session 2:  Review Practice, What’s actually happening when we meditate?  Review of research into the benefits of Meditation

Session 3:  Discussion on progress & Q&A.    Counting Meditation designed to aid focus and concentration

Session 4:  Identifying effects of Meditation in everyday life.   Mindfulness.    Walking Meditation

Session 5:  Meditation & the Brain 1:  Meditation and Brainwave patterns.   Using the mind to change the brain to change the mind!   Gratitude Meditation

Session 6:  Meditation and the Brain 2:   Understanding anxiety and using Meditation to develop calm and equanimity

Session 7:  Meditation as a tool for managing pain.   Chanting Meditation

Session 8:  Review of program.   The role of Meditation in the Evolution of Personal Consciousness.  Loving Kindness Meditation

By running over 8 weeks we have time to really establish a Meditation practice, and there’s plenty of time to check in each week as to how the practice is going and if there are any specific questions about the practice that are concerning people.

What sort of effects does the program have for people?

At the start of the program and again at the end of the program, we survey the participants across a range of indicators.    The results of the survey can be seen in the video on our website (you can register there too!) - next course starts 27th June, 2011

Have you got any questions about Meditation? – just type them below – we’d love to answer them.

StJohn and Alexia Miall (Meditate for Life Facilitators)

StJohn Miall

StJohn Miall

StJohn Miall is the co-founder of Keep Evolving, an organisation the facilitates Leadership and Personal Development Programs that has it’s focus on the development of Wisdom, authentic Power and Compassion.  His focus is on the design and delivery of programs to both the corporate sector and the general public with particular focus on deeper, developmental work, supporting the ongoing building of emotional intelligence, spiritual intelligence, coaching, leadership and personal development.

StJohn is an expert guide in the gentle practice of Meditation and its use by those wishing to explore their own inner landscape.

With over 25 years of training experience, StJohn has a wealth of experience to call on both in the design and delivery of transformational programs. He is known for his easy style and ability to make the complex simple and easy to grasp.

Along with his wife Alexia, he facilitates ’Meditate for Life’ and eight week program run in Sydney to learn all about meditation and how to establish a regular meditation practice.   StJohn and Alexia also Facilitate the ‘Take a Stand for Life’residential program held at Bundanoon which is specifically for people looking to further develop their skills for a meaningful and fulfilling life.   You can find out more about StJohn’s activities when he’s not at Quest, by visiting the Keep Evolving website.


Alexia Miall

Alexia Miall

Alexia’s career began in banking and then moved via advertising to a major career change in 1980 to Adult and Transformational Education.  She has been privileged to share this incredible journey with 1000’s of like minded souls through her extensive experience as a facilitator, trainer, life coach, therapist, and mentor.  She managed her own training company in Victoria during the 1990’s, and during this time was the Course Leader for a training program from which the Banksia Environmental Foundation formed.

Alexia has acquired further education in Adult Education in Training; Somatic Psychotherapy; Life Coaching; Conflict Resolution; plus Accreditation in many behavioural and culture change models. She is an Associate of EcoSTEPS, a niche Sustainability consultancy, which supports her love of the natural environment.



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Sweep the floor when you want a clean house.

Sweep the floor when you want a clean house.  Transform it into a moving meditation for clearing negative thinking, emotions and states of mind.

Benefits

  • Transforms ordinary house-cleaning into spiritual practice
  • Provides powerful visualization for clearing negativity
  • Strengthens spiritual resolve

Sweeping is one of the more satisfying house-cleaning activities.  It is physical and you can see the results immediately.  There is something wonderful about cleaning all that dust and dirt out of the way.  Vacuum if you must, but this meditation is best done with a good old-fashioned broom.

When

When you have to house-clean anyway, you can make good use of your time with this meditation.

Preparation

Think of any past negativity you would  like to purify or any mental debris you would like to clear.

Practice

  1. Pick up your broom and stand in the area you plan to sweep.  It can be inside or outside your house.  Kitchen or garage floors work nicely and your path or front step would be fine as well.
  1. Examine the floor for dust or dirt.  It may be quite noticeable or quite subtle.  See that noticeable or subtle dust or dirt as negativity residing in your own mind and heart.  Imagine that as you sweep, the negativity will be swept away with the dirt.  If you have been unkind to your partner, if you have hurt a friend or if you have been drinking too much lately, see the dirt as these past actions.
  1. Start sweeping.  Focus only on the dirt, the broom and the floor.  As you sweep, see and feel your negativity leaving your mind and heart.  You can sweep away your potential to commit negative acts in the future and your doubts and your fears in the present.  Get creative and sweep away whatever is bothering you.
  1. End your meditation by sweeping the dirt into a bin and throwing it away.  See your negativity going with it.

The Meditation Bible ~ Madonna Gauding

Are you interested in learning more about meditation? Alexia and StJohn Miall are co-facilitators on Meditate for Life, an 8 week experiential meditation course in Sydney, commencing in 27th  June, 2011. Click here for more information.

Alexia Miall

Alexia Miall

Alexia’s career began in banking and then moved via advertising to a major career change in 1980 to Adult and Transformational Education.  She has been privileged to share this incredible journey with 1000’s of like minded souls through her extensive experience as a facilitator, trainer, life coach, therapist, and mentor.  She managed her own training company in Victoria during the 1990’s, and during this time was the Course Leader for a training program from which the Banksia Environmental Foundation formed.

Alexia has acquired further education in Adult Education in Training; Somatic Psychotherapy; Life Coaching; Conflict Resolution; plus Accreditation in many behavioural and culture change models. She is an Associate of EcoSTEPS, a niche Sustainability consultancy, which supports her love of the natural environment.




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If for an instant God were to forget that I am a puppet and gifted me with a piece of life

This is just about my favourite quote in the world. Supposedly written by Gabriel Garcia Marquez after being diagnosed with lymphatic cancer but never validated by the man himself! A mystery indeed but whoever wrote it, it is beautiful and hopefully inspiring…

If for an instant God were to forget that I am a puppet and gifted me with a piece of life,
possibly I wouldn’t say all that I think, but rather I would think of all that I say.
I would value things, not for their worth but for what they mean.
I would sleep little, dream more, understanding that for each minute we close our eyes we lose sixty seconds of light.

I would walk when others hold back.
I would wake when others sleep.
I would listen when others talk, and how I would enjoy a good chocolate ice cream!
If God were to give me a piece of life, I would dress simply, throw myself face first into the sun, baring not only my body but also my soul.

My God, if I had a heart, I would write my hate on ice, and wait for the sun to show.
Over the stars I would paint with a Van Gogh, dream a Benedetti poem,
and a Serrat song would be the serenade I’d offer to the moon.
With my tears I would water roses, to feel the pain of their thorns,
and the red kiss of their petals.

My God, if I had a piece of life…
I wouldn’t let a single day pass without telling the people I love that I love them.
I would convince each woman and each man that they are my favourites,
and I would live in love with love.
I would show men how very wrong they are to think that they cease to be in love when they grow old, not knowing that they grow old when they cease to love!

To a child I shall give wings, but I shall let him learn to fly on his own.
I would teach the old that death does not come with old age, but with forgetting.
So much have I learned from you, oh men…

I have learned that everyone wants to live on the peak of the mountain,
without knowing that real happiness is in how it is scaled.
I have learned that when a newborn child squeezes for the first time with his tiny fist his father’s finger, he has him trapped forever.

I have learned that a man has the right to look down on another only when he has to help the other get to his feet.

From you I have learned so many things, but in truth they won’t be of much use,
for when I keep them within this suitcase, unhappily shall I be dying.

GABRIEL GARCIA MARQUEZ ???

Margie Braunstein

Margie Braunstein

Margie is a somatic psychotherapist and counsellor providing psychotherapy services to the people of the Central Coast and Sydney.  Margie lives on the beautiful Central Coast with her husband, two children, two dogs and a cat.

Over the last 12 years, Margie has also been engaged in the design, delivery and marketing of transformational learning programs. During this time she has regularly facilitated personal development programs for up to 50 people on weekend workshops, week-long intensives and advanced programs of 3-4 months.

Margie has a Graduate Certificate in Adult Education from UTS, Diploma in Psychotherapy from the Australian College of Contemporary Somatic Psychotherapy and qualifications in somatic therapy, executive coaching and relationship counselling.

Margie has a passion for personal development and regards people with respect, empathy and compassion in the belief that while we all do the best we can, a little bit more kindness and care can lead to even greater peace and joy in life.

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Who am I? What am I doing with my life? Am I over it yet? And what do I need to do to move forward?

As Petrea said recently on Richard Glover (ABC Midweek Conference), “Many of us have mantras that help us in times of stress.” Some of those might be:

This too will pass

One day at a time

You alone can do it, but you don’t have to do it alone

Time will tell

Would you rather be right or happy?

I am not my feelings, I have feelings

Some people have other less helpful ones that they gathered in childhood or through life experience which also impact in ways that can keep us trapped in our suffering:

What’s the point of trying; I’m bound to fail

This always happens to me

Whatever I do, it’s hopeless

You can’t trust life/people

Life sucks!

I can’t change

So while some of us have mantras that help us move forward and get on with life, others have ones that keep them stuck.

We can blame our childhood, our situation, our relationship, our job, the economy, the government or climate change. It is often difficult to move forward. It often takes a real drama in our lives to make us stop and ask those deeper questions about our experience: Who am I? What am I doing with my life? Am I over it yet? And what do I need to do to move forward?

My favourite mantra has been with me since a fairly dramatic and colourful childhood, ‘I know I can be more than this’. At other times I hear myself say, ‘I’m over this, so stuff it!’ It often depends on the heat of the moment and the degree of my awareness around the situation which mantra I listen to!

What are your positive affirmations/mantras that you use in times of stress? We’d love to share them with the Quest community.

Wendie Batho

Wendie Batho

Wendie has co-facilitated residential programs with Petrea for more than sixteen years. Prior to that Wendie spent over 25 years as a teacher, school principal and was involved in educational leadership and facilitation of school executive groups.

Ten years of this time was spent in PNG where she taught and worked for the government. Wendie has been travelling since the early sixties and is especially attracted to Asian cultures. She holds degrees in Anthropology, Education, Sociology, Theology and Political Science. Her current passions are her grandchildren, travel biographies, exploring Asia, 4×4 driving, reading everything she can get her hands on, and watching movies on the big screen at home.

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‘Post it note’ I keep by my laptop

If only I was thin
If only I was happy
If only I was rich
If only life was easy
If only life was good
If only I was young
If only I was talented
If only I could play guitar
If only my bank balance was different
If only the garden weeded itself
If only my car was clean
If only my children were happy
If only my mother was different
If only I could take a year off
If only I was beautiful
If only I had more friends
If only life didn’t suck
If only I was well
If only there was no cancer
If only I could get a suntan without worrying about melanoma
If only things were not the way they are…

Then… and only then… I could be happy.

Sound familiar

When we ‘if only’ ourselves, we postpone happiness to a future time. We distract our self with a fantasy about being in a different moment from now. We use our wonderful mind to make up imagined, alternate realities that we think will be so much better.

We may momentarily avoid feeling pain, which is always waiting to resurface, but more importantly, we avoid feeling joy too. So much of our suffering is caused from this desire to eliminate ‘bad’, unwanted feelings.

I used to wake up feeling anxious about money. I would say to myself “I feel terrified that I don’t have enough money to meet my commitments” (one of my most overused thought patterns).

I could go from that thought to “what if I end up in poverty living under a bridge with a cardboard box as a blanket?” in about a nanosecond. This is how I escalated the feeling. And “if only we had more money” was my most common reactive thought followed closely by feelings of hopelessness, shame, helplessness and depression.

The irony is that when we are able to choose and we stop running from the discomfort of fear and accept what is, then life becomes less scary.

Over the years, and with a smidgeon of wisdom, I have learned to sit with my feelings and my circumstances. I tell myself… “feeling fear (or whatever) is OK.” I accept the situation (as hard as that can be at times when I want to force it to be different).

“My bank balance is as it is. It will probably change for the better and if it doesn’t, I will deal with any issues as they arise”…

Accepting that I can only do what I can do is OK. Then (on a good day), I look around and I notice the green leaves outside my window, I fully receive the cup of tea my darling husband brings me (instead of snapping at him) and I notice the enormous abundance of my life.

The joy in every molecule is revealed and I feel blessed to be alive in this moment with whatever life brings. I notice the fear and I comfort myself or I seek comfort (from the same darling husband if he is around or I phone a friend or go see my counsellor).

My feelings about my bank balance, my weight, my pain or my inability to play the guitar are not who I am. I am inner beauty, divine life and I am my first nature which is love and which is sublime. And so are you…

So I encourage you to notice the ‘if onlys’ and where they lead you. Notice them in your mind, in your language and how they can actually intensify your pain.

My hope is that with awareness, and on a good day, this might lead you to accept what is happening in the present moment and feel the glorious freedom from suffering which is available and ever present right now.

Lots of love

Margie Braunstein

Margie Braunstein

Margie is a somatic psychotherapist and counsellor providing psychotherapy services to the people of the Central Coast and Sydney.  Margie lives on the beautiful Central Coast with her husband, two children, two dogs and a cat.

Over the last 12 years, Margie has also been engaged in the design, delivery and marketing of transformational learning programs. During this time she has regularly facilitated personal development programs for up to 50 people on weekend workshops, week-long intensives and advanced programs of 3-4 months.

Margie has a Graduate Certificate in Adult Education from UTS, Diploma in Psychotherapy from the Australian College of Contemporary Somatic Psychotherapy and qualifications in somatic therapy, executive coaching and relationship counselling.

Margie has a passion for personal development and regards people with respect, empathy and compassion in the belief that while we all do the best we can, a little bit more kindness and care can lead to even greater peace and joy in life.


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Dearest Bernadette.....

I’d like to share (with permission) this story from a past participant.

“Dearest Bernadette,

 I need to share something very profound with you!  I don’t know whether you remember my “story” when we were sitting in our sacred circle at Bundanoon.  You hear so many stories!!  But I raised my hand at one stage and tried to explain how I felt about the big “F” word – FORGIVENESS!!!  I was full of bitterness and anger and even admitted to the group (with great shame) that I hated my father.

 This is what happened this morning:

 This morning, as I dressed for my walk, the Heavens opened and it bucketed down!!  So, instead, I did a lovely long routine of yoga followed by a very deep and beautiful meditation.  It must have been meant to be because during that meditation I had quite a revelation!

 You know how I feel about my father, right?  And how much anger, resentment, bitterness and (I’m ashamed to admit) hatred that I’ve been lugging around with me for the last 57 years, right?  Well, during my meditation this morning, it suddenly hit me that we are all deeply flawed, that we all carry scars and pains from our past.  And, because of that, we all react to life in surprising ways – sometimes very inappropriate and imperfect ways.  Dad was no “less” than I am and I am no “more” than he was.  We are just the same. 

 I do not, and will never, condone what he did to us as children but I see him through different eyes now.  God made the sun shine on him and the rain fall on him just as He did (and does) me!!  I think I can forgive the heart of Dad, the soul of him!!!  Not his actions…but the essence of him!!! 

 Oh my God!!!  I feel as though I could fly!!!  I feel this great sense of freedom and joy!!!  I’m very new at this whole “forgiveness” thing and so I don’t know if this feeling will last…but I do know that it’s a major leap forward for me!!!  Wow!!!  There’s a rainbow shining somewhere!!!

 Bernadette, do you believe in miracles?  I think I do!!!

I feel so free Bernadette!  It’s opened something up inside my heart and there’s more room to love now.  There’s more compassion and understanding…not just for Dad…but for everyone!

 With very much love and a million “thank yous” for the rainbows you’ve sent especially for me.  Gratitude and privilege fill my heart…there are no words.  I can only pray that you “know”!!  And I don’t mind if you share my “miracle”!     Jan

Thank you for your generous sharing Jan, we honour your story and are inspired again and again in the reading of it. Love and huge rainbows to you.

Bernadette Arena

Bernadette Arena

Bernadette has worked with the Quest for Life Foundation since early 2006 and is the Senior Facilitator on our residential programs.  Her work is treasured by our participants and our team. She has also been developing and refining a deep understanding of the use of appropriate yoga and meditation approaches for use in oncology and with serious illness.

Bernadette maintains close association with International Yoga Teachers Association and is a senior lecturer for their Teacher Training Course.  She has designed and delivered yoga teacher training courses for other organisations.  During 5 years in the UK she taught retreats, workshops and classes across the UK and in Europe and worked as a personal ‘lifestyle’ coach.  Bernadette brings a gentle and loving nature with insight and compassion borne out of her experience. She can assist a deeper connection with the body as a means to rejuvenate the spirit.


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